I am not religious, but by no means am I not a person of beliefs. Though hard to grasp and seemingly frail to the unexpected nature of life, there are places we can all sit happily in terms of things unknown. What can be true beyond any argument in our world of billions of lives and years of history? Change. Constant change and of course adjustment to such inevitability.
Unpredictable and impossible to avoid, change will always be a part of our lives and therefore a part of our world. Therefore we can never claim ourselves to be one of anything except a human on this planet experiencing change. As much as we wish to fit ourselves into obsolete roles and desire a secure life, we are just as open to becoming anyone, at any moment.
This is hard to swallow, given we live in a society driven by preferences and control. The truth is we couldn’t be more out of control of our lives and usually that terrifies people.
Though, it shouldn’t.
You will always be vulnerable to the tide of change and adjustment, but that doesn’t mean your whole home needs to be swept away into the ocean. We experience changes for many reasons. Some are so cleverly disguised their purposes remain unknown for some time until after they have occurred. While we cannot be of certain doubt why change happens, we know it is only here to bring us to the next step, and the next step further, and further beyond into our lives journey. Without it, we would still be a ball of cells swimming blissfully in ancient soup.
If change so necessary, why do we sit so afraid? Because it is unknown and scary and out of control? Take a closer look and reflect on all change has done for you. Marvel at the shift of who you were, where you were exactly one year ago today and bask in the shifts still occurring today.
Change gives us a spectrum of emotions and challenges but what we gain is an appreciation for each other, who we are in this moment, and what is still to come. Yes we can never say we are free from troubles, worries, and other burdens but we know to work hard for what we love and preserve those things, because it is so much easier for them to change and drift away.
I believe in change. I believe in the positive role it has in my life. I know change has always brought me to the next step in my life’s journey and will always be there to push or guide me further. I want to be colored and morphed by change like a rock or seashell pushed on to shore. When change is challenging, I hope to remember the people and things I value and love, moving always closer and deeper into this life with appreciation and gratitude
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